DISORDERS OF COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN GIRLS AND BOYS

The purpose of the study is to reveal the specifics of communication disorders in the relationship between a boy and a girl, their origin, the emergence of a couple at the initial stage of communication. It is necessary to take into account those manifestations that lead to serious violations in communication and a couple breakup, in particular, conflicts, and crises. Research methods applied: theoretical (analysis, generalization) and empirical (questionnaire development and implementation, analysis of answers and comparison of data). The consequences of crisis situations in a young couple’s relationship are as follows: it can serve as a motive for self-awareness or rethinking oneself in the relationship; as a push to change behavior; as a risk for another girl or boy; as a risk of suspicions, quarrels and accusations. Elimination of deformations, establishment of relations help young people to get out of problem situations in the right way. Young people mention communication disorders: abuse of time, resources; violation of personal boundaries; directive behavior; ignoring the position of a partner, indifference; attempts to act illegally, inadequately; neglect of opinion, position; manipulation in relationships; immoral manifestations. To determine the specifics of violations in the relationship between a boy and a girl, factors are characterized by personal areas − cognitive, emotional, volitional. The results of the study show that young people find important the factors of influence and correctly understand the ways of establishing interpersonal communication. However, overcoming the crisis is to become a conscious desire.