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WALLS AND BRIDGES: HOW COUPLED GAY MEN AND LESBIANS MANAGE THEIR INTERGENERATIONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Author(s) -
LaSala Michael C.
Publication year - 2002
Publication title -
journal of marital and family therapy
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.868
H-Index - 68
eISSN - 1752-0606
pISSN - 0194-472X
DOI - 10.1111/j.1752-0606.2002.tb01190.x
Subject(s) - lesbian , psychology , independence (probability theory) , social psychology , developmental psychology , gender studies , homosexuality , sociology , psychoanalysis , statistics , mathematics
Eighty respondents in 20 gay male and 20 lesbian couples were interviewed in depth to determine the nature and influences of their intergenerational relationships. Most respondents reported that their partner relationships were not affected by parental disapproval. Both the lesbian and gay male participants assertively defended the emotional, intergenerational boundaries around their unions. However, the gay men emphasized the importance of independence from their parents, whereas the lesbians sought harmonious intergenerational connections. The findings suggest how Bowen's ideas about intergenerational relationships may need to be modified to reflect the genderspecific ways coupled gay men and lesbians manage their family relationships.