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A Marital Conflict Resolution Model: Redefining Conflict to Achieve Intimacy *
Author(s) -
Strong John R.
Publication year - 1975
Publication title -
journal of marital and family therapy
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.868
H-Index - 68
eISSN - 1752-0606
pISSN - 0194-472X
DOI - 10.1111/j.1752-0606.1975.tb00094.x
Subject(s) - introspection , conflict resolution , active listening , social psychology , psychology , conceptual model , process (computing) , conflict resolution research , resolution (logic) , cognitive psychology , computer science , sociology , psychotherapist , social science , database , operating system , artificial intelligence
The approach to conflict resolution used in this model is to redefine conflict as alternative choices. Six assumptions about conflict are reviewed, suggesting it is the way conflicts are processed, not the conflict per se, which affects the relationship. The model is built on skills: Listening, speaking, deciphering basic needs, unlocking alternative choices, and introspection about the process. Some perspectives and principles provide a conceptual framework for use of the seven sequential procedures. Effectively processed conflicts result in greater personal and relationship understanding and potential for growth.