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ON BEING THERE, ON STRUGGLING TO BE THERE AND ON BEING ORDINARY
Author(s) -
Ashley Jill
Publication year - 2003
Publication title -
british journal of psychotherapy
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.442
H-Index - 17
eISSN - 1752-0118
pISSN - 0265-9883
DOI - 10.1111/j.1752-0118.2003.tb00086.x
Subject(s) - psychology , order (exchange) , psychotherapist , social psychology , economics , finance
ABSTRACT It is my view that healing takes place in a situation of intimacy around a vulnerable and damaged area and that, in order to have access to that area, the therapist must conduct himself as an ordinary and decent human being. He must have the capacity to ‘be there’. This paper discusses what it means to ‘be there’ and examines why it is of such central importance in bringing about change. Included in this is the struggle to ‘be there’, that is, the intimate struggle between the therapist and patient, as well as the separate and private struggle that both therapist and patient have intrapersonally. A clinical example is given in illustration.