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Moments of Meeting: The Relational Challenges of Sexuality in the Consulting Room
Author(s) -
Renn Paul
Publication year - 2013
Publication title -
british journal of psychotherapy
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.442
H-Index - 17
eISSN - 1752-0118
pISSN - 0265-9883
DOI - 10.1111/bjp.12017
Subject(s) - human sexuality , psychoanalytic theory , sexualization , psychology , developmental stage theories , psychoanalysis , psychotherapist , sociology , gender studies
In this paper, I explore the relational challenges of sexuality in the consulting room, as informed by developmental studies and ‘moments’ theory, and discuss the contentious issue of self‐disclosure. I acknowledge that there has been a hiatus in recent decades in the discussion of psychosexuality in psychoanalysis, linked to a shift from F reud's drive theory to post‐ F reudian developmental theories, as well as to the change in the role of the therapist that this has entailed. While I also acknowledge that these changes have resulted in a certain de‐eroticization and de‐sexualization of psychoanalysis, I point to research showing that sexuality is, in fact, very much alive in the consulting room, but also to a gap in training on such issues, and to a concomitant lacuna in the literature discussing sexual attraction between therapist and patient. Before discussing the ethical and relational challenges of sexuality in the consulting room, I summarize the evolution of sexuality in psychoanalytic thinking and briefly discuss relevant developmental perspectives. I question the view that a developmental model is not suited to effectively working with sexual material. I illustrate theoretical points with a clinical case study, a development of previously published work ( R enn, 2012).