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Understanding mutuality: Unpacking relational processes in youth mentoring relationships
Author(s) -
Lester Ashlee M.,
Goodloe Courtney L.,
Johnson Haley E.,
Deutsch Nancy L.
Publication year - 2019
Publication title -
journal of community psychology
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.585
H-Index - 86
eISSN - 1520-6629
pISSN - 0090-4392
DOI - 10.1002/jcop.22106
Subject(s) - psychology , empathy , experiential learning , unpacking , construct (python library) , interpersonal relationship , interpersonal communication , social psychology , thematic analysis , pedagogy , qualitative research , sociology , linguistics , philosophy , social science , computer science , programming language
Abstract Evidence suggests that a close interpersonal bond is important for the success of youth–adult mentoring relationships. Mutuality has been suggested to be important for developing a close interpersonal bond (Rhodes, 2002, 2005), but mutuality remains an abstract construct, difficult to understand and cultivate. Using thematic analysis of mentor and mentee ( n = 42) interviews, we investigate how mentoring pairs reflect on mutuality. Results suggest that mutuality is understood as a combination of 2 dimensions: shared relational excitement and experiential empathy. Shared relational excitement is felt when there is a genuine desire by both the mentor and the mentee to invest in the relationship. Experiential empathy is the process through which mentors connect with, advise, and normalize the experiences of their mentees by sharing their own relevant experiences. This work has implications for mentor training, program development, and future research on youth–adult relationships.