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CONTRASTS MARRIAGE AND IDENTITY IN WESTERN FIJI
Author(s) -
Thomas Nicholas
Publication year - 1992
Publication title -
oceania
Language(s) - English
Resource type - Journals
SCImago Journal Rank - 0.356
H-Index - 25
eISSN - 1834-4461
pISSN - 0029-8077
DOI - 10.1002/j.1834-4461.1992.tb00360.x
Subject(s) - identity (music) , raising (metalworking) , history , arranged marriage , law , sociology , genealogy , gender studies , political science , art , aesthetics , engineering , mechanical engineering
You see how people get married here, how much work it involves. The mats, the drums, the animals, it's murder! If it's a woman, that's all right, you just go and eat. But if you've got a young man, you have to start raising cattle. With you foreigners, it's easy. You have a small party and that's it. It's better that way, here it is just too much. You know how the Indians get married, Niko? The man goes to the woman's father and says, ‘Here's a thousand dollars. How about it?’ He says, ‘That's not much.’ Then the man offers fifteen hundred, he says ‘Ummm.’ Then when the man offers two thousand, he says, ‘All right.’ Different customs, say!